Metrics can only capture things which can be quantified. Sometimes this leads to only an indication of what you truly want to measure. How do you measure emotions?
Indications, not the thing itself examples
Time on pagevs engagement or actually reading an articleSign up to join a waitlistvs how interested are you in thisCustomer retentionvs how valuable do you find this productReturning use of a meditionvs how relaxing was this?
Sometimes, getting customer feedback is a better signal or quantification of something that cannot truly be measured.
As long as you’re aware that you’re measuring and optimizing towards an indication or proxy the metric is meaningful. If you are not aware, they tend to be harmful.